FRENEMIES!!!!!!
FRENEMIES!!!! DOES ANYBODY KNOW WHAT A FRENEMY IS? SOME OF YOU MAY HAVE ONE OR SEVERAL AND NOT EVEN KNOW OR BE AWARE OF IT. A FRENEMY IS A PERSON WHO PRETENDS TO BE YOUR FRIEND, THE ONES THAT GET CLOSE ENOUGH TO KNOW ALL YOUR DARK SECRETS, WHERE YOUR CHILDREN GO TO SCHOOL AND ALL DETAILS ABOUT YOUR LIFE. (SCARY)! A FRENEMY IS A PERSON WHO SMILES IN YOUR FACE, ACTS AS IF THEY ARE ON YOUR TEAM BUT IN REALITY THEY ARE YOUR BIGGEST OPPONENT, A SNAKE IN THE GRASS THAT IS HARD TO SEE OR NOTICE AND YOUR BIGGEST ENEMY. A FRENEMY GOES TO CHURCH WITH YOU, CRASHES AT YOUR PLACE, BORROWS MONEY FROM YOU, COMES TO YOUR HOLIDAY PARTY, SOME STICK AROUND FOR YEARS AND EVEN BECOME YOUR CHILDREN GODPARENTS’. A FRENEMY IS A PERSON THAT IS JEALOUS OF EVERYTHING YOU ARE OR GOT THAT THEY ARE NOT OR DON’T HAVE. THEIR MOTIVES ARE WICKED AND MOTIVATED BY FEAR, JEALOUSY AND HATE. A FRENEMY ONLY WANTS THE WORSE FOR YOU, THEY WILL BRING DRAMA IN YOUR LIFE WITHOUT YOU KNOWING THAT IT IS THEM CAUSING IT… I KNOW, I HAD A COUPLE IN MY LIFE SO I WRITE THIS TO YOU AS MY TESTIMONY AND EXPERIENCE TO WARN OTHERS. BE CAREFUL WHO YOU LET IN TO YOUR LIFE, YOUR WORLD, YOUR MIND AND HEART. SOME PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR TO BLESS YOU AND WHILE A MAJORITY COME INTO YOUR LIFE TO CURSE YOU. ESPECIALLY A FRENEMY, WHO NEVER WANTS TO SEE YOU HAPPY, HATES TO SEE YOU SHINE, PRAYS FOR YOUR DOWNFALL, WILL SLEEP WITH YOUR MAN OR WOMAN GIVEN THE OPPORTUNITY, WILL TRY TO KEEP LOVE AWAY FROM YOU AND WANTS TO DESTROY YOU!!! FRENEMIES ARE REAL AND THEY ARE OUT THERE!!! FRENEMIES ARE WEAK AND HIDE BEHIND THEIR FEARS, JEALOUSY AND HATE. PEOPLE LEARN TO READ THEIR BODY LANGUAGES, THEIR FACIAL EXPRESSIONS AND EVEN THAT SILENCE YOUR HEAR ON THAT OTHER END OF THE PHONE WHICH SPEAKS VOLUMES IF YOU PAY ATTENTION. FRENEMIES CAN NOT CONTROL THEIR EMOTIONS SO THEIR EMOTIONS ARE REVEALED THROUGH THEIR BODY LANGUAGE AND FACIAL EXPRESSION. A FRENEMY IS SOMEONE YOU JUST TOLD YOU GOT A PROMOTION FROM YOUR JOB, THEY SHOUT FOR JOY WITH YOU BUT THEIR SMILE IS FAKE AND NOTICEABLE. OR THE FRENEMY YOU TELL YOUR DREAMS AND THEY TRY TO STEER YOUR WRONG, TELLING YOU HOW IMPOSSIBLE IT IS AND WILL DEFER YOU FROM YOUR DREAMS IF YOU ALLOW THEM TOO. PAY CLOSE ATTENTION PEOPLE, SOME SECRETS ARE NOT MEANT TO BE SHARED, TELL PEOPLE WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO KNOW ABOUT YOU NOT WHAT THEY WANT TO KNOW. IT IS BETTER TO LEAVE PEOPLE IN AWE AND CREATE A SENSE OF MYSTERY THEN TO BE AN OPEN BOOK. THIS WHY SOME PEOPLE END UP WITH FRENEMIES. DON’T TRUST TOO MUCH, LET PEOPLE EARN YOUR TRUST, EARN YOUR FRIENDSHIP AND EVEN KINDNESS SOMETIMES BECAUSE TOO MANY GOOD PEOPLE GO WITHOUT IT WHILE ALL THE BAD ONES TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT. SOME OF YOU MAY NOT LIKE WHAT I JUST SAID BUT THIS IS REALITY AND IT IS VERY REAL… SO ARE FRENEMIES!!! ESPECIALLY THE WAY THE ECONOMY IS, THE HATE, JEALOUSY AND FEAR IS ON HIGH ALERT, (LOL).. BUT SERIOUSLY WHAT I’M SAYING IS REAL. I AM NOT TRYING TO PUT FEAR IN PEOPLE HEART OR MIND BUT BASICALLY LETTING YOU KNOW THAT THESE TYPE OF PEOPLE EXIST AND ARE REAL. JUST BE AWARE THAT NOT EVERYBODY WHO COMES AS A FRIEND IS A TRUE FRIEND…. BE WELL MY FRIENDS UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.
1 comment March 26, 2009
DOES SIZE MATTER
BUT WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT IS THE SIZE OF A MANS’ PENIS. YOU KNOW LADIES IF A GUYS SHOE IS A SIZE 12 OR 13, WE START WONDERING HOW THAT MAN IS PACKAGED AND HOW MUCH DAMAGE CAN HE DO WITH THAT…LOL BUT DOES SIZE MATTER? MEN AND WOMEN PLEASE GET AT ME AND EXPRESS YOUR OPINIONS ABOUT THIS. FOR ME, IT DOES.. NOT ONLY THE SIZE BUT THE WAY THE SUBMARINES MOVES AND MANEUVERS AROUND CORNERS AND CAN IT MAKE IT RAIN??? EVEN HURRICANE IF YOU GET MY DRIFT…
THERE IS A LOT OF COMPANIES NOWADAYS THAT MARKET SUPPLEMENTS TO HELP AND ASSIST A MAN WITH HIS PENIS SIZE IF HE IS A HAVING A PROBLEM WITH THE SIZE. OH THE EVER SO POPULAR PENIS PUMP WHICH IS STILL BEING SOLD TODAY. THEY EVEN INVENTED VIAGRA… MAYBE ONE DAY THE WILL INVENT A MIRACLE SUPER GROW PILL TO EXTEND THE PENIS SIZE WHERE IT WILL KEEP GROWING AND GROWING…LOL
NOW, I HAVE TO ADD SOME CONTROVERSY TO THIS. DOES THE BLACK MEN HAVE A BIGGER PENIS SIZE THAN ANY OTHER RACE? PEOPLE GET AT ME WITH YOUR THOUGHT, OPINIONS AND COMMENTS!! STUDIES HAVE SHOWN THAT THE BLACK MEN IS HUNG VERY, VERY NICELY. NOT JUST IN LENGTH BUT IN WIDTH AS WELL…. UH HUH.. OH YEAH THEY ALSO MARKET SUPPLEMENTS TO HELP MEN ACHIEVE A DESIRED WIDTH.. SO SIZE DOES MATTER PEOPLE.
SO MEN TAKE NOTES…
Add a comment March 25, 2009
ELMO GONE WILD
THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS BEHIND THE SCENES, THE NAKED TRUTH ABOUT ELMO…..
Add a comment March 25, 2009
Double Standards
Double standards have been part of our socities and cultures for too long. You know the type that allows a boy or man to do anything but penalizes a girl or woman for doing something similiar. Society has accepted men to behave in such a way that is negative but yet makes excuses or praise them for their behaviors. When a man sleeps around or has attained different females as his girfriends’, he is viewed as a “Don”, a ‘Cassonova”, a ‘Player”, the mack, the “MAN’ and the ever popular one… a “pimp”. Look at Hugh Heftner who is the ultimate “playboy” and the envy of other men. We live in an age were Aids killing millions and a plague to the world. Cureless sexual transmitted diseases and even HPV which causes cervical cancer. When a woman sleeps around or has attained different men as her beau or boyfriends, that woman is considered a “whore”, “slut”, ‘homewrecker’ and a “slut”. Men and society view her as damaged goods . Her reputation follows her everywhere. What a double standard!!!
Some countries have killed of their first born if it was not a male. Some even offered their daughters as sacrifices and sold them off to slavery. This is happening in India and other parts of the world. Where families are selling their daughters to the highest bidder for land, into marriages with the wealthy and sex slaves. This is why human trafficking exist. If you turn on the television, most shows like Law and Order always depicts a woman being raped, sodomized or viciously murdered. The violence against women is at an all time high, men are killing their wives and girlfriends at an alarming rate. Even the domestic abuse women sustained from their husbands and boyfriends remains a problem till this day.
Is it a mans’ world? That is the question… At one point, women were not allowed to vote, work or even express their opinions. But of course with time everything changes so women fought for their rights to free speech, the right to vote and work and obtain position as their male co-workers. Has a lot changed? Is society more accepting of a woman CEO or is it intimidated by that? Does society accept women to make more money than men? Some men remain intimidated by this and let jealousy set in their hearts. Now come on, a man is not suppose to be jealous of a woman or become jealous at all. Society taught us that jealousy and envy are a women trait… now that is a double standard!!! Men have the same emotions as a women. Society also teaches us to believe that women tend to be more emotional and react with an emotional mind than men. I disagree and that is a double standard!! Even the way we raised our children is a double standard. Boys are taught to be tough, never to show emotions that are considered weak such as pain, fear, sadness nor cry. They are taught to keep things bottled up but to vent through sports, being a bully and displaying some form of violence.. Look at some of the video games that are being marketed.. Girls are raised to be princesses, show emotions that it’s okay to cry, be sad, show fear and even weaknesses. To be the damsel in distress. When a girl wants to play a sport such as ‘football’ or wants to become a ‘mechanic’, she is ridiculed and sometimes deferred from attaining those goals or dreams.
So the question remains, why do we allow such a double standard? And are women and men created equal? Or we really equal????
Add a comment March 24, 2009
ATTITUDE!!!
YOUR ATTITUDE WILL DETERMINE YOUR ALTITUDE. HAVE NO FEARS, SPREAD YOUR WINGS AND FLY. SOAR WILL HIGH FOR THE POSSIBILITIES ARE ENDLESS……
Add a comment March 24, 2009
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