FRENEMIES!!!!!!

FRENEMIES!!!! DOES ANYBODY KNOW WHAT A FRENEMY IS? SOME OF YOU MAY HAVE ONE OR SEVERAL AND NOT EVEN KNOW OR BE AWARE OF IT. A FRENEMY IS A PERSON WHO PRETENDS TO BE YOUR FRIEND, THE ONES THAT GET CLOSE ENOUGH TO KNOW ALL YOUR DARK SECRETS, WHERE YOUR CHILDREN GO TO SCHOOL AND ALL DETAILS ABOUT YOUR LIFE. (SCARY)! A FRENEMY IS A PERSON WHO SMILES IN YOUR FACE, ACTS AS IF THEY ARE ON YOUR TEAM BUT IN REALITY THEY ARE YOUR BIGGEST OPPONENT, A SNAKE IN THE GRASS THAT IS HARD TO SEE OR NOTICE AND YOUR BIGGEST ENEMY. A FRENEMY GOES TO CHURCH WITH YOU, CRASHES AT YOUR PLACE, BORROWS MONEY FROM YOU, COMES TO YOUR HOLIDAY PARTY, SOME STICK AROUND FOR YEARS AND EVEN BECOME YOUR CHILDREN GODPARENTS’. A FRENEMY IS A PERSON THAT IS JEALOUS OF EVERYTHING YOU ARE OR GOT THAT THEY ARE NOT OR DON’T HAVE. THEIR MOTIVES ARE WICKED AND MOTIVATED BY FEAR, JEALOUSY AND HATE. A FRENEMY ONLY WANTS THE WORSE FOR YOU, THEY WILL BRING DRAMA IN YOUR LIFE WITHOUT YOU KNOWING THAT IT IS THEM CAUSING IT… I KNOW, I HAD A COUPLE IN MY LIFE SO I WRITE THIS TO YOU AS MY TESTIMONY AND EXPERIENCE TO WARN OTHERS. BE CAREFUL WHO YOU LET IN TO YOUR LIFE, YOUR WORLD, YOUR MIND AND HEART. SOME PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR TO BLESS YOU AND WHILE A MAJORITY COME INTO YOUR LIFE TO CURSE YOU. ESPECIALLY A FRENEMY, WHO NEVER WANTS TO SEE YOU HAPPY, HATES TO SEE YOU SHINE, PRAYS FOR YOUR DOWNFALL, WILL SLEEP WITH YOUR MAN OR WOMAN GIVEN THE OPPORTUNITY, WILL TRY TO KEEP LOVE AWAY FROM YOU AND WANTS TO DESTROY YOU!!! FRENEMIES ARE REAL AND THEY ARE OUT THERE!!! FRENEMIES ARE WEAK AND HIDE BEHIND THEIR FEARS, JEALOUSY AND HATE. PEOPLE LEARN TO READ THEIR BODY LANGUAGES, THEIR FACIAL EXPRESSIONS AND EVEN THAT SILENCE YOUR HEAR ON THAT OTHER END OF THE PHONE WHICH SPEAKS VOLUMES IF YOU PAY ATTENTION. FRENEMIES CAN NOT CONTROL THEIR EMOTIONS SO THEIR EMOTIONS ARE REVEALED THROUGH THEIR BODY LANGUAGE AND FACIAL EXPRESSION. A FRENEMY IS SOMEONE YOU JUST TOLD YOU GOT A PROMOTION FROM YOUR JOB, THEY SHOUT FOR JOY WITH YOU BUT THEIR SMILE IS FAKE AND NOTICEABLE. OR THE FRENEMY YOU TELL YOUR DREAMS AND THEY TRY TO STEER YOUR WRONG, TELLING YOU HOW IMPOSSIBLE IT IS AND WILL DEFER YOU FROM YOUR DREAMS IF YOU ALLOW THEM TOO. PAY CLOSE ATTENTION PEOPLE, SOME SECRETS ARE NOT MEANT TO BE SHARED, TELL PEOPLE WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO KNOW ABOUT YOU NOT WHAT THEY WANT TO KNOW. IT IS BETTER TO LEAVE PEOPLE  IN AWE AND CREATE A SENSE OF MYSTERY THEN TO BE AN OPEN BOOK. THIS WHY SOME PEOPLE END UP WITH FRENEMIES. DON’T TRUST TOO MUCH, LET PEOPLE EARN YOUR TRUST, EARN YOUR FRIENDSHIP AND EVEN KINDNESS SOMETIMES BECAUSE TOO MANY GOOD PEOPLE GO WITHOUT IT WHILE ALL THE BAD ONES TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT. SOME OF YOU MAY NOT LIKE WHAT I JUST SAID BUT THIS IS REALITY AND IT IS VERY REAL… SO ARE FRENEMIES!!! ESPECIALLY THE WAY THE ECONOMY IS, THE HATE, JEALOUSY AND FEAR IS ON HIGH ALERT, (LOL).. BUT SERIOUSLY WHAT I’M SAYING IS REAL. I AM NOT TRYING TO PUT FEAR IN PEOPLE HEART OR MIND BUT BASICALLY LETTING YOU KNOW THAT THESE TYPE OF PEOPLE EXIST AND ARE REAL. JUST BE AWARE THAT NOT EVERYBODY WHO COMES AS A FRIEND IS A TRUE FRIEND…. BE WELL MY FRIENDS UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.

1 comment March 26, 2009